對於美國的通諜,蘇聯最後不得不將基地撤離。美國無損一兵一卒,便貫徹了自己的主張。
在上述這個例子裏,美國迫使蘇聯采取行動,而達成他們所希望的決定。美國成功的關鍵在哪裏?為什麼蘇聯會采取撤軍的行動呢?
談到這點前,我們再看看另一個例子:越(yue)南(nan)問(wen)題(ti)。肯(ken)尼(ni)迪(di)的(de)下(xia)一(yi)任(ren)總(zong)統(tong)約(yue)翰(han)遜(xun),把(ba)數(shu)十(shi)萬(wan)軍(jun)隊(dui)送(song)到(dao)越(yue)南(nan),前(qian)後(hou)花(hua)了(le)好(hao)幾(ji)年(nian)的(de)時(shi)間(jian),最(zui)後(hou)卻(que)輸(shu)給(gei)北(bei)越(yue)。北(bei)越(yue)雖(sui)然(ran)也(ye)很(hen)強(qiang)大(da),但(dan)蘇(su)聯(lian)更(geng)強(qiang)大(da)。可(ke)是(shi)對(dui)於(yu)這(zhe)樣(yang)強(qiang)大(da)的(de)蘇(su)聯(lian),肯(ken)尼(ni)迪(di)尚能不損一兵一卒貫徹己方主張,得到和平,但是對於小國北越,約翰遜卻派出八十萬大軍,最後仍難逃失敗的命運。
究jiu竟jing,這zhe兩liang件jian事shi有you什shen麼me不bu同tong?鬆song下xia認ren為wei,這zhe是shi領ling導dao者zhe做zuo法fa的de問wen題ti。肯ken尼ni迪di有you堅jian定ding的de決jue心xin,他ta不bu但dan要yao求qiu蘇su聯lian飛fei彈dan基ji地di撤che離li,自zi己ji也ye派pai出chu艦jian隊dui封feng鎖suo古gu巴ba的de海hai域yu。蘇su聯lian的de船chuan要yao去qu古gu巴ba,也ye都dou受shou到dao攔lan阻zu,同tong時shi,為wei徹che底di攔lan阻zu,亦yi不bu惜xi向xiang想xiang硬ying闖chuang的de船chuan隻zhi攻gong擊ji。這zhe樣yang一yi來lai,倘tang使shi這zhe種zhong情qing況kuang惡e化hua下xia去qu,就jiu可ke能neng演yan變bian成cheng美mei蘇su兩liang國guo的de正zheng麵mian衝chong突tu,甚shen至zhi引yin起qi第di三san次ci世shi界jie大da戰zhan。
在zai肯ken尼ni迪di這zhe個ge重zhong大da的de決jue心xin下xia,蘇su聯lian最zui後hou隻zhi得de將jiang船chuan停ting下xia,赫he魯lu曉xiao夫fu最zui後hou隻zhi有you宣xuan布bu說shuo,如ru果guo美mei國guo解jie除chu對dui古gu巴ba的de封feng鎖suo,那na麼me蘇su聯lian就jiu撤che去qu飛fei彈dan基ji地di。至zhi此ci,事shi情qing終zhong未wei發fa展zhan成cheng最zui壞huai的de結jie果guo,戰zhan爭zheng避bi免mian了le,美mei國guo的de主zhu張zhang亦yi得de以yi貫guan徹che。
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